Question: Not so good life; will It always be like this?

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Answer #1:

Exercise and eat healthy and be nice

Those kids are just b*tches!

Answer #2:

I think you just need to start giving it out to any boy that walks, all the boys will love you then!

Answer #3:

We're like sisters!

But no, it wont always be like this. Just have faith, and believe. Start taking things into your own hands, and make things happen for you. And as for confidence, fake it til you make it!

Answer #4:

try to be a bit more optimistic. start putting in effort to make a change for the better instead of basking in your negativity. make it known to the uiniverse what you want and if you truley desire it the world will do wonders for you. try it, it really works.

Answer #5:

No it won't always be like this. How old are you? If you're still young, life gets a lot better, I promise.
You have to change your outlook on life. Make it a party. Sing songs in your head and dance when there's no music. Just act happy and have fun with everyone in your life, no matter what's happening. Laugh! You have to lighten up a little in order to enjoy life.
I am just like you sometimes and I just have to remind myself that adulthood is right around the corner and I think that everything will get better then.

Answer #6:

Your life isnt that bad, it seems like all your "problems" are self inflicted and stem from you having a low self esteem.

How do you expect to have friends if you dont even like yourself? Get out of the house or find a hobby. Do some volunteer work and help people with real problems like being homeless.

Not having a boyfriend doesn't mean you have a bad life. You're probably too young to have one anyway...

Answer #7:

You need to start thinking positive. If you think negatively then you will give off negative vibes and people don't want to be around negative people, its very draining. People don't not like you because you think you're overweight, its the vibes.
You need to take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror and find bits about you that you do like, and focus on them. No matter what it is we all have something about us that another person will love.
So you have never had a boyfriend, you don't need a boy to make you feel good about yourself, you need to love yourself before someone else will love you.
Stop hating your life, eat well, exercise and love nature, things will improve.
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Answer #8:

You don't say how old you are. That could have been my own description at a couple of times in my life, when I was 13 and again in my late 20's. And I got past those low cycles in my life-- everyone has them, even people you think are confident and happy and have the world in their pocket. It's part of being human.

Will things change, you ask? Of course they will -- change is one thing that is a given. And there are things you yourself can change, as you well know. It may be hard to believe when you are feeling down, but it actually takes less effort and energy to make your life a little better every day than it does to stay in the rut of negativity. And the rewards are well worth it. It's OK to feel sorry for yourself every once in a while, but when it lasts more than a day or two and you don't feel able to make some effort to snap out of it, you ought to think about talking to a counselor.

Answer #9:

Hun, be more optimistic and things will be okay...heres some ideas...

exercise.
meet new people.
get confident, get a new hairstyle, change it up, make it fun.
it's okay, being around new true friends will make you feel better and comfortable around them, I used to have like one friend, till I went out and met new people, and I wouldn't trade them for the world, I wouldn't care if they were a gazillion lbs btw they're my friends, and friends don't care about that stuff, they'll make you happy and motivate you, and don't be so dependent on people, get independent. You don't have to have a guy to depend on. You're fine with just you!

If you're a nice person, I guarantee things WILL change. :)

Answer #10:

Why don't you try listing the good things about yourself. It's easy to find your faults, find your strengths. Make yourself into the person you want to be, go healthy, trust me, it boosts your confidence. Get out there!

Answer #11:

I'm overweight. - me too.
I have no friends. - same.
No confidence. - me neither.
I've got social anxiety. - me too, to an extent.
I'm abit depressed. - hmm, not exactly.
I have no motivation. - i used to feel that way, but I was only hurting myself.
I worry alot. - self inflicted.
I'm not independent at all. - me neither.
I've never had a boyfriend. - me neither.

But I manage to stay happy. You need to take all of that negative energy and put it towards something positive.

Answer #12:

suggest you undertake sessions with someone qualified in psychotherapy.psychotherapy can help you to resolve the
cause of your anxiety.





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